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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 00:58

How does one succeed in life?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Ask yourself:

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Why do I keep dreaming of my mom, who recently passed away from cancer, still being sick and in pain?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Is spinach easy to grow?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

What if the girl says that drama about you dating here? Is that a bad sign?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Have husbands and wives ever had a threesome with someone in real life? How did it happen?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

How do you perform a lap dance for your boyfriend or husband?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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That's it for today.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Can they start feeding only one meal to prisoners on death row or those doing a life sentence? Because only then will it be real punishment. If they want extra food they can work or pay from their own pocket.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Does not procrastinate.

What I need from you?

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Hangs out with loser friends.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.